It Is Not Your Fault
I will not allow my attacker to define me as a victim, or stop me from living the rest of my life as I was; The person I was before the rape.
What were you wearing? Did you have something to drink?Did you ever say NO? Did you push him off of you? Did you actively resist? What were you doing when he took off your clothes? Were you dressed at this time? How long after did you leave? Did you know him? How long did you know him before you went out with him? Was it in a public place? Did he kiss you?